To Hell with studies!

all that has ever done is allowed someone to make some money and not solve the problem, I started paying child support right when I was served papers, even when I was "kicked" out of my home.

I had got several payday loans (here) and I paid child support because I knew I had an obligation to my kids. what is tearing me up right now is that I made every child support payment that I was supposed to and now have found that my income tax refund is being held from me due to "back child support", I have been a SOLE parent for over 7 months now and haven't received any support, financially or emotionally, from my ex but if I was to do what she is doing right now I would be in jail accused of being a "deadbeat dad", and now am also supposed to "be nice" to her whenever she calls and talks to the kids....